Learning to live alone

Remember when we were kid we used to enjoy our life to the fullest even when we were alone?

Those who fly solo have the strongest wings.

Most of the time when I say I love being alone people often mistaken me as I’m depressed or I’m lonely. I just want to say that when people say they love alone that means they love being with themselves.

In this vibrant world we are so busy following what other people want us to do. We are so busy looking at what other peoples do and trying to do the same thing.

We are so busy that we don’t have time to think about ourself. We are so busy with others, we are so busy scrolling social media, we are busy with following trends and trying to fit to this world that we actually forget that one thing. One thing, to love ourself.

We are so busy in this outside world that we actually forgot there’s another life as well and that is; inside of us. When I say insider life it means our emotional and mental life.

We get so busy with our social media life that we actually forgot to take actual care of us.

Looking at others profile and checking out their life, what they are wearing, where they are going and what they are having with their life, we forgot to live for ourself. When we look at others we are subconsciously comparing our own life with them.

When we look at the things others do but may be we can never do, looking at the clothes others wear but we may never get chance to wear, traveling photos which we may never get to go even in our dreams. We are comparing our life with their life. We are unknowingly fantasizing our live with their life.

We are unknowingly trying to live our lives their way.

I personally love being alone. It’s not because I don’t like people or I have phobia but it’s because I respect my own personal space so much that I want to know much about me. More and more I stay with myself, more and more I get chance to understand myself. Whenever I get into problems I get my own personal space so I can think properly trying to figure out my problem.

People often think alone people are lonely. But I believe, those who are afraid to be alone are the loner in this world because such people can’t live their life with themselves and seek others approval.

If theirs one suggestion I want to give others then it’ll be – Learn to live alone.

When you develop the habit of living alone trust me you’ll start living your own life, without worrying about others. You’ll understand yourself and your situations more clearly.

And when you understand yourself, your life starts feeling like a blessing. You’ll start loving your life and yourself more and more everyday.

When you live with yourself, you will start talking with yourself. You will start making friends with your own self.

Any humans are so unpredictable. We never know when they will change and leave us. But there is one person will never leave you even at your lowest point in your life and that’s YOU. So, it’s better to invest your time to know yourself rather than running after social media and other people.

Go outside in nature and try to live your moment with your self.

Follow your heart.