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Is this the freedom you’re dreaming about?

Let’s today think about – Am I free from WHAT IF?

I love looking at others, when they are quite , away from me or else listening and observing their words and action is also what I love to do. Well, I love doing it not because I want to see them or want to be near them but I do this because i want to learn. I love learning new things. It doesn’t matter if it’s from book, or practical or life based learning. Till this age what I’ve learnt is none of living beings want to be under others command. Everyone of us want to be free and want to live our life our way but the thing is, we are unknown about the fact that none of us are actually free in this planet. Well, I do not know about other planet so I’d like to point only our planet- Our Mother Earth.

It’s true that we do not have time to think so it’s also obvious that we follow. Some of us follow guides from their religion, some from schools, some from experience and some from their influencers. Actually the thing is most of us are ready to follow something that sparks. Sparks means, thing that’s at the top ( according to my understanding).

People say they want freedom, but the truth is actually everyone of us are actually free but not free at the same time. We are free to experience our own life according to our thoughts process but are also chained or locked up by our mentality, our mentality to follow trends and follow pretty things and good incomes.

We are free to enjoy our life, we are free to cry, we are free to get angry, we are free to love unless it’s all for ourselves. We can do anything we want with ourself. But the truth is we are afraid to explore something different. That’s the reason why we follow others. That’s the reason why we believe in what people from higher posts says to us. And that belief is not just a belief, it’s a blind belief because we do not have in-depth knowledge about if and do not courage to ask question.

None of us like it when others command us to do things their way. But the another truth is, everyone of us want to be boss as well.

But have we ever questioned ourselves if we are really living our life freely? Are we really seeking to live our life freely?

Till this age, how many of us takes time to think about things we actually did which we always wanted to do? May be like dancing infront of your friends? talking with strangers? rejecting friends proposals? How many of us actually did those things without thinking about other things like what if???

How many of us are free from WHAT IF….????

How many of us are from from seeking others approval for your doings?

How many of us are from looking at every pretty girls and handsome boys and wishing to have them our partners?

How many of us are free from dieting mentality?

How many of us free from layers and layers of make ups to hide your natural beauty? ( make up is an art and I love arts but some people use make up to hide their face as well because they have less confident with themselves is also another truth, so I’m referring it to them. If this sentence hurt some peoples sentiments I’m so sorry)

If I start writing everything on points it’ll get too long so I’ll sum up just in one sentence . HOW MANY OF US ARE FREE FROM DEPENDENT MENTALITY, from ‘ WHAT IF’ MENTALITY??

Well I do not know if anyone have talked about if before or not so I’ll give this name to this quote. Which is understand recently while writing this blog.

Every humans are free but aren’t free at the same time.

Ekagrata

I referred humans because other animals aren’t free like we humans. So why to include other animal kingdoms?

Okay that’s all i want to include in this writing because I just want to make it simple and short. All I want to request everyone is to think, think for your life and think about your life. Take some time for yourself, get out from social media and live your life for real. Go out and explore your life in reality.

Thank you.

Namaskar. 🙏

Learning to live alone

We were happy when we were kids.

Remember when we were kid we used to enjoy our life to the fullest even when we were alone?

Those who fly solo have the strongest wings.

Love yourself first. If you can’t love yourself, you can’t love others as well.

Most of the time when I say I love being alone people often mistaken me as I’m depressed or I’m lonely. I just want to say that when people say they love alone that means they love being with themselves.

In this vibrant world we are so busy following what other people want us to do. We are so busy looking at what other peoples do and trying to do the same thing.

We are so busy that we don’t have time to think about ourself. We are so busy with others, we are so busy scrolling social media, we are busy with following trends and trying to fit to this world that we actually forget that one thing. One thing, to love ourself.

We are so busy in this outside world that we actually forgot there’s another life as well and that is; inside of us. When I say insider life it means our emotional and mental life.

We get so busy with our social media life that we actually forgot to take actual care of us.

Looking at others profile and checking out their life, what they are wearing, where they are going and what they are having with their life, we forgot to live for ourself. When we look at others we are subconsciously comparing our own life with them.

When we look at the things others do but may be we can never do, looking at the clothes others wear but we may never get chance to wear, traveling photos which we may never get to go even in our dreams. We are comparing our life with their life. We are unknowingly fantasizing our live with their life.

We are unknowingly trying to live our lives their way.

Give yourself more time.

I personally love being alone. It’s not because I don’t like people or I have phobia but it’s because I respect my own personal space so much that I want to know much about me. More and more I stay with myself, more and more I get chance to understand myself. Whenever I get into problems I get my own personal space so I can think properly trying to figure out my problem.

People often think alone people are lonely. But I believe, those who are afraid to be alone are the loner in this world because such people can’t live their life with themselves and seek others approval.

If theirs one suggestion I want to give others then it’ll be – Learn to live alone.

You’ll love yourself if you talk to yourself first.

When you develop the habit of living alone trust me you’ll start living your own life, without worrying about others. You’ll understand yourself and your situations more clearly.

And when you understand yourself, your life starts feeling like a blessing. You’ll start loving your life and yourself more and more everyday.

When you live with yourself, you will start talking with yourself. You will start making friends with your own self.

Any humans are so unpredictable. We never know when they will change and leave us. But there is one person will never leave you even at your lowest point in your life and that’s YOU. So, it’s better to invest your time to know yourself rather than running after social media and other people.

Follow your heart.

Go outside in nature and try to live your moment with your self.

Follow your heart.